Shy Violet

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Finish each day and be done with it.

You have done what you could.

Some blunders and absurdities

no doubt crept in;

forget them as soon as you can.

Tomorrow is a new day;

begin it well and serenely and

with too high a spirit to encumbered

by your old nonsense.

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Um. I think this violet is confused. Don’t violets bloom in spring?

I looked all over and found just the one. But isn’t it lovely?

This quote holds a lot of meaning for me. I am one of those people who replay past mistakes over and over in my head, who hold grudges, who will dwell on past events until I’m hurt and angry all over again.

I have a slow-burning temper, and I am well aware that in the long run I only punish myself. But I could never just Let Things Go. I always wanted things to somehow be evened out, put right, made fair.

I wrote this passage out, painstakingly, in my very best lettering, and posted it prominently above my desk. I take note of it all the time.

I am learning to Let It Go. And I love thinking of it as my “old nonsense”.

How do you put the brakes on your temper? How do you Let It Go?

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3 responses to “Shy Violet”

  1. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    Actually, I honestly don't know how to let go. But I want to let you know that I'm fascinated by that quote. And I wonder where you get all these interesting quotes. I'm impressed that you keep them all in your head.

  2. FancyPants-design Avatar
    FancyPants-design

    I love your quote!! You always have such great quotes!!

    For me.. I always try to keep in mind that life is too short to be spent angry. Also..that no one should have the right to dictate my emotions..or have that much control of my happiness.

    I agree..it can be hard sometimes…especially since I am very sensitive..

  3. courtney Avatar
    courtney

    i LOVE this quote! i beleive i'd bought it when it was published on a quotable card (www.quotablecards.com) and hung it in my office for a while, until i felt the need to pass it on to someone who needed the reminder more than me.

    great choice.

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