Category: Conscious Consumerism: Shopping & Reviews

  • Taking Care of Summer Hair: Anti Breakage Shampoo and Conditioner

    Taking Care of Summer Hair: Anti Breakage Shampoo and Conditioner

    Got crunchy, dry, damaged hair from processing, styling, swimming, sweating? We’ve got the fix for those summertime blues.

    If your hair is done properly and you’re wearing good shoes,
    you can get away with anything.

    -Iris Apfel

    (If you’re not familiar with Iris Apfel you simply must watch Iris on Netflix or at least read this.)


    I received Desert Essence products for free from Moms Meet as part of their blogger program to use so that I could post my honest opinions. 


    I get asked a lot about ways to protect and repair hair, since mine and my daughter Cassidy’s take a beating on a steady basis:

    • we bleach out sections several times a year and use fun colors on it every six weeks or so (the dyes we use are vegetable based, but the combing through during application is a little rough)
    • we are regularly in the pool or ocean, and in direct sun
    • we often shower multiple times a day due to sports/band practice/workouts/swim time

    To be honest, my hair is usually pretty crunchy. To paraphrase my new fave John Mulaney, I’m not so much getting old as getting gross. I’m not great at keeping up with getting it trimmed regularly— which is, obviously, the best way to keep your hair looking healthy. The second most obvious option is to not wash it so much, but that’s not really in the cards for us. We have combination hair: while the bulk of our hair is dry and somewhat brittle, the scalp and roots get oily quickly and sweat doesn’t help the situation. 

    I’ve tried applying countless oils and “smoothing” styling products to the ends, which cuts down on frizz but within hours leaves our hair looking, well, oily and limp. 

    So for years my solution has been to wash as often as needed and then apply a LOT of conditioner from ponytail grip on down to the ends, letting sit for as long as possible, rinsing REALLY thoroughly, and avoiding styling products other than the occasional emergency dry shampoo. (Dry shampoo is great, don’t get me wrong, but I can’t use it on a sweaty scalp. It grosses me out.) When getting into the pool or ocean, I’d braid my hair while it was still wet and then coat the braid in conditioner or coconut oil (which works and is a hot tip. Write it down).

    And then I was sent Desert Essences Anti-Breakage Shampoo and Conditioner to review and everything changed. I’m not even exaggerating.


    You may have heard of Desert Essence before. It was founded in 1978 and was the first company to bring Jojoba oil to the marketplace— it’s still their top product.


    Desert Essence Anti-Breakage Shampoo is infused with Country Life Maxi-Hair (an exclusive blend that includes biotin, keratin and Pro-Vitamin B5), helping to reduce breakage up to 61%. It also boasts jojoba and coconut oils, aloe, saw palmetto to smooth and fortify hair cuticles, and radish seed extract for shine. Aloe and shea butter in the Anti-Breakage Conditioner help detangle and condition hair.

    Holy cats. My husband Jeff usually says that running his hands through my hair is like trying to detangle spiderwebs: it knots almost instantly (I don’t brush very often, to minimize breakage, just finger comb while conditioning) and it’s generally the opposite of silky smooth. Within one use of Desert Essence, the texture of my hair changed. It was actually soft and shiny and less frizzy and you could get your fingers through it! And it continued to improve with ongoing use. And I only had to use a little bit of each product; no more huge globs of conditioner necessary.

    I was still struggling with the oily scalp and roots though, which is where stage two of Desert Essence to the rescue came into play. Along with the Anti-Breakage Shampoo and Conditioner, I’d been sent Desert Essence’s Smoothing Primer. This product’s ingredient list includes apple cider vinegar, quinoa protein, tea tree oil hydrosol, maiden hair fern, wild thyme, great burdock and jojoba. It’s meant to help close the hair cuticle, remove product buildup, and balance the scalp’s natural pH. It tingles, which is my favorite quality in a hair product (I used to buy a conditioner that MASSIVELY tingled which I loved but had give it up; it was causing massive oiliness and scalp buildup). But more importantly, my hair has tons more volume at the roots and doesn’t look like an oil slick the next day. You can use it after washing and conditioning, or you can use it in between shampoos to refresh your hair and scalp our without stripping your hair through overwashing. I LOVE IT.

    For an extra boost of shine and protection, I’ve also been applying a little of Desert Essence’s Anti-Breakage Hair Mask to my braid before swimming and then doing a nice deep conditioning after a day in the sun. It’s super hydrating and my hair feels like the promises made to you by the pictures in magazines.

    Keep in mind that damage is damage— trimming is the only surefire way to keep your ends really looking healthy— but this particular line of haircare really has my hair looking and feeling so much stronger, silkier, shinier.

    You can save 20% Anti-Breakage and Smoothing Hair Care Products on desertessence.com with the promo code DELovesMomsMeet. It’s also available at Natural Grocers, Luckys Market, MOM’s Organic Market, and other local natural food stores; check the website for your closest retail location here.

    Now that I’ve got all that vain stuff about my hair out of the way, allow me to talk about Desert Essences, the company.

    Desert Essence was founded in 1978 around a simple concept: beauty is natural, and nature is beautiful. By bringing the best of nature’s offerings to personal care regimens everywhere, we strive to strengthen the bonds between our planet and all the beings that call it home. Creating a healthy, harmonious relationship with the Earth and our community is the foundation for all we do. We believe in being responsible to others, honest, and forward-thinking to create and preserve a better future for us all.

    Um, I love that. But wait, there’s more:

    • all Desert Essence ingredients are clearly labeled on the product and on the website; their products have biodegradable formulas, contain no artificial colors or fragrances, and the packaging is recyclable
    • their bar soaps are made using 100% sustainably harvested palm and palm kernel oil
    • they are a certified B-Corp Corporation, meeting the highest standards of verified social and environmental performance, public transparency and legal accountability
    • they purchase wind power credits and print business materials on recycled paper
    • they use natural and organic ingredients from around the world, supporting a federation of Australian plantation farmers who signed a pledge not to use any artificial pesticides, herbicides, or fungicides
    • no animal testing of any products or ingredients
    • they partner with various charities and relief efforts, as well as with organizations like Plan International USA’s Because I Am a Girl Initiative. (With every purchase of their new Oil Blends, Restorative and Balancing Facial Oils, 1% of sales will be donated to help girls in impoverished areas get access to education so they can change their own lives, the lives of their families, and that of their community.)

    Oil blends? Facial oils? Yeah. Desert Essence has a ton of products that look like they smell SO GOOD, from skin care to bath & body to dental care. They also have a page to make finding gluten-free products easier (and they’re running a sale on them at the moment, check it out).

  • Book Review: Hey, Baby! A Collection of Pictures, Poems, and Stories from Nature’s Nursery

    Book Review: Hey, Baby! A Collection of Pictures, Poems, and Stories from Nature’s Nursery

    Hey, Baby! A Collection of Pictures, Poems, and Stories from Nature’s Nursery comes from National Geographic Kids. It’s like Eric Carle’s Animals, Animals meets Rudyard Kipling’s Just So Stories meets animal encyclopedia, with the beautifully detailed presentation of a nature documentary. It’s genuinely enjoyable bedtime reading to help foster a love of animals and the world they live in.

    To know a thing we must love it,
    and to love a thing we must know it.

    -Kitaro Nishida (Japanese philosopher)

    Disclosure: I received this product for free from Moms Meet, May Media Group LLC, who received it directly from the manufacturer. As a Moms Meet blogger, I agreed to use this product and post my honest opinion on my blog. The opinions posted are my own.

    Did you know a baby zebra is called a fool?!

    How about that a polar bear can smell a seal from a mile away?

    Have you heard the aboriginal folktale that explains how the kookaburra got his laugh? (Much to the eternal shame of the showoff lyrebird.)

    I’ve written a number of times about the importance of teaching kids about— and exposing them to— nature and its inhabitants, early and often. I mean, we all do this intuitively to some extent; we take them to the park and jump in leaf piles, we go to the zoo and point out the giraffe’s long neck, we hug puppies and feed ducks, we ask them what does a lion say? to hear their adorable roar.

    In those posts, I’ve always stressed helping kids to know nature and animals, because when they know how insects fit in the food chain, they’ll care about preserving them for the sake of the birds and small mammals. When they know the call of a crow and see how clever and funny they are, they’ll notice when numbers dwindle and act to preserve them. When they have the opportunity to look a loggerhead turtle in the eye, conserving the ocean has more urgency, more meaning.

    I’d never really thought about how it works the other way too, but it does. How do we inspire kids to want to know the animals and their habitats? We foster a love of them: we spend time as a family at the aquarium, or birdwatching, or playing in the ocean, creating memories. We talk about what our favorite animals are. We buy stuffed animals to snuggle with at night. We invite pets into our homes. And we do one of my favorite things. 

    We read to them.

    Hey, Baby! A Collection of Pictures, Poems, and Stories from Nature’s Nursery comes from National Geographic Kids. It’s like Eric Carle’s Animals, Animals meets Rudyard Kipling’s Just So Stories meets animal encyclopedia, with the beautifully detailed presentation of a nature documentary.

    Organized by habitat, the book is full of the amazing photography and fascinating animal facts you’d expect from National Geographic. Each page highlights a different (super cute, obviously) baby animal and tells you their “baby name” (pup, eaglet, calf, etc), where they grow up and what they eat.  

    What sets it apart, and makes it ideal for bedtime reading, is the snackable nature of the facts shared. Plus there are animal poems, fables and folktales from around the world, and stories of animal friendships and successful rescues/rehabs. At the end of each section is a “Tot Lot,” a photo gallery of baby animals with a quick bit of trivia about each.

    All in all, it’s a visual and lyrical treasure. A wealth of information, surrounded by beautiful pictures of adorable baby animals, wrapped up in wonderfully readable stories just right for sharing with kids. 

    (I feel it’s important to point out that my kids were all, at one point or another, obsessed with a particular animal encyclopedia we had that is intended for children. I gamely read that to them at bedtime, but it wasn’t fun reading for me; it was— well, it was reading pages from an encyclopedia every night for like a month. Hey, Baby! is a totally different experience from that. I read it cover to cover and genuinely enjoyed every page, making note of different stories and authors I want to follow up on.)

    The book is a coffee table book, nice and big, perfect to hold together with your child while reading. It would be a great gift for any little, but exceptional as a baby shower or welcome-to-the-world present (I’m a BIG fan of giving lovely keepsake hardbacks to babies, so that they grow up seeing it on a shelf until they are old enough to have it read to them, and then one day read themselves, and eventually hand down to another baby. Most babies get more clothes and toys from other people than they will ever fully use).

    Extra incentive! Purchases of National Geographic Kids books support the exploration, research, and conservation efforts of the National Geographic Society.

    You can find Hey, Baby! A Collection of Pictures, Poems, and Stories from Nature’s Nursery pretty much everywhere— at traditional bookstores like Barnes & Noble; local independent stores; Target, Costco, Walmart, etc; and of course online on sites like amazon.com and shopng.com/books.

    National Geographic online for more good stuff:

  • Aromatherapy and the Scents of the Season

    Aromatherapy and the Scents of the Season

    Scent is such a simple way to elevate your everyday. Find out how you can get a Mrs Meyers holiday set of limited time, seasonally scented cleaning products for FREE.

    mrs meyers holiday set
    This post contains affiliate links.

    Science confirms that certain smells can trigger emotions and memories, and to me it seems like an obvious, common sense practice. Simply put: smelling things that we believe smell good, or that evoke good memories, makes us feel good. Feeling good staves off to some degree feelings of anxiety, stress and depression, which are all too easy to come by during the hustle bustle of the holiday season. 

    As a bit of anecdotal evidence, I’ll say that Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, and it has everything to do with the sensation of walking into a warm house that is absolutely filled to the brim with the smell of a million good things cooking. It’s the best feeling in the world. Thinking about it leads to me to another, similarly wonderful feeling, of entering a room with a freshly cut Christmas tree inside and breathing in the crisp scent of pine.

    Scent is such a simple way to elevate your everyday, but because the smells of the holidays are so tied up in nostalgia the effect is that much more powerful.

    I particularly like when my cleaning products, especially soaps, smell nice. That’s because every time I clean or soap up, I’m reminded of the Thich Nhat Hanh story of how doing dishes can be a mindfulness practice, a moment of zen, as you’re forced to live in that moment and experience dish washing.

    All of this is my roundabout way of explaining (again!) why I love Mrs Meyers products so much. Most of the year, I use Basil dish soap and Rosemary laundry detergent, and it really, genuinely makes dish washing and hanging laundry out on the line an enjoyable experience for me. (I also buy the Rosemary hand soap, but I haven’t reached that level of mindfulness yet where washing hands is a transcendent moment. Washing hands is boring.)

    I also love Grove Collaborative. They have a really impressive selection of natural and non-toxic household, health and beauty products with very competitive prices. It’s stuff I buy anyway— dish soap, laundry detergent, body soap, face wash, shaving cream, sponges, essential oils for the diffuser, you name it— only it’s my favorite brands without me having to go out of my way to find them.

    The way it works is that you build yourself a virtual “pantry” of products, which ships once a month (you can change the date of shipment or skip a month if needed.) I get a reminder before shipment that a delivery is imminent, so I can go in and quickly remove items that we’re still good on or add things I need. Since I tend to forget to buy things like dish soap when I’m out, that’s a huge help for me— plus, with a VIP membership shipping is quick and free!

    Grove Collaborative is constantly adding new items I’ve never seen sold before, and offering little bonus freebies that keep my love for them going after all this time. If you’ve never tried them before, this is a freebie you don’t want to miss.

    Mrs Meyers has just released their limited-time seasonal scents: peppermint, orange clove, and Iowa pine. They are wonderful, and such a simple, little indulgence that sort of ushers in the holiday season for me. (The WHOLE holiday season. Let me bask in Thanksgiving before you start with the caroling, please.)

    When you place your first order of $20 using my link through November 19th 9pm ET, you get to experience the magic of Mrs. Meyer’s for FREE with this Holiday Set from my friends at Grove Collaborative.

    • Free Holiday Mrs. Meyer’s hand soap
    • Free Holiday Mrs. Meyer’s dish soap
    • Free Holiday Mrs. Meyer’s multi surface spray
    • Free Grove seasonal kitchen towel
    • Free Shipping & 60 Day VIP Trial

    Existing customers get a free set of Grove walnut scrubber sponges. I love those, too, as much as you can really love a sponge.

    With the VIP status: for 60 days, you’ll get free shipping, free gifts, price matching, exclusive sales and personal service.

    I should warn you that last year, Mrs. Meyer’s seasonal scents sold out quickly. This offer is only available through November 19th or until the sets are gone, so don’t miss out! Here’s how it works:

    1. Sign up for Grove Collaborative here. You will receive the Holiday Set for free when you sign up.
    2. To receive this offer, your order needs to be a minimum of $20. Choose the combination of products and scents you love and receive your first box within a few days.
    3. That’s it! Click Finish & Pay and place your order.

     

    Enjoy the scents of the season and making new aromatherapy memories. 🙂