Category: Family, Parenting

  • Green Gifts for Kids: PlanToys

    Green Gifts for Kids: PlanToys

    The child amidst his baubles is learning the action of light, motion, gravity, muscular force…

    -Ralph Waldo Emerson

     

    This is my niece Eva. She is so freaking cute, I can’t pick just two photos to include in this post.  Enjoy the onslaught of adorable.

    When picking out toys as gifts, for my kids or someone else’s, I like to look for the following:

    1. educational value combined with play value
    2. hardiness combined with longevity (is the toy going to become boring in no time flat?)
    3. the eco factor: made with non-toxic materials by a company with sustainable practices
    4. general loveliness/ aesthetic value
    5. awesomeness.

    It’s rare that I’ll find something that fits all five points, but the catalog over at PlanToys hits the mark time and again.

     

     

    Lots of my favorites toys for our kids have been PlanToys. Cass still breaks out the Unit Blocks from time to time:

     

     

    We loved the water blocks. These are nice and chunky and big and seemingly unbreakable, not to mention mesmerizing for little kids and tired parents alike. Stack one on top of the other and you’ve got a handy dandy lesson in primary and secondary colors.

     

     

    The Miracle Pounding toy was a favorite. Basically, you feed a ball into one end, and one pops out the other. Great for developing motor skills, and pretty sitting on a shelf.

     

     

    One year each kid got a Moving Mouse in their stocking. These are the sorts of toys you pull back and then they race away; these suckers were fast and darted around like real mice. They were a lot of fun.

     

     

    The Sort & Count teaches hands-on math skills.

     

     

    (We’ve never owned this one, but I have to ask: how cute is this shopping cart?)

     

     

    That’s just the beginning. PlanToys has train sets, dollhouses, cars, cities, “cuttable” play food, rattles, walking toys, musical instruments, mobiles and more.

    PlanToys are made from environmentally friendly materials:

    • organic rubberwood
    • non-toxic non-formaldehyde glue
    • waterbased dye and soy & waterbased ink (no lead paint concerns here!)
    • recycled and recyclables.

    They’re also simple and open-ended, lending educational value recognized by Parents’ Choice Award and the Oppenheim Toy Portfolio Award.

    Are these toys a little more expensive? Yes. But each one I linked to above (aside from the shopping cart) I myself bought and my kids played with. For a loooooong time. And by that I mean,

    1. each kid would stay engaged with the toy for a good amount of time each time they played with it.
    2. The toy remained entertaining for a good span of time in that child’s life.
    3. AND, I bought them when Jake was little— they survived being passed down through all three of my kids and went on to be passed down to another child.

    That’s what I call value.

    As a for-example of longevity: I got to give Eva the new Sorting Board to try.

     

     

     

    She took it to her little table like any good Montessori child and got down to business.

     

     

    Eva’s just a few months past her 2nd birthday, but she has pretty decent fine motor skills for that age. She spent a fair amount of time playing with this right out of the box without getting frustrated.

    In any case, most kids will start by grabbing the pieces from the top and flat handedly forcing the pieces onto the pegs; as they grow more adept they’ll hold with just two fingers on one side and place onto the pegs that way.

     

     

    As the child masters one skill, you can take the toy away for a few weeks and then reintroduce with a new skill objective. So after figuring out the two finger hold, you could bring it back and ask for the pieces to be put on in order by color; first the reds, then the blues and so on.

    After that, you can ask for the shapes. Circle, triangle… then ask by the number of sides. Put all the shapes with four sides on first…

     

     

    And after that, you can use the shapes as tracing elements. Trace around the shapes and color them in. Master that, and then you can trace the outer shape and the small inner circle and color different colors.

    Go check out PlanToys and buy some for the kid in your life. They’re awesome, plain and simple.

     

    Disclosure: I received a Sorting Board for review purposes, but I’ve purchased many a PlanToy with my own cash money. All opinions are wholly my own and backed by nearly a decade of playing with this company’s product— long before I knew about or cared about their eco factor.

     

     

  • Christmas Budgets and Teaching Kids About Money

    Christmas Budgets and Teaching Kids About Money

     

    That money talks, I’ll not deny,
    I heard it once: it said, ‘goodbye’
    ―Richard Armour

    A light purse is a heavy curse.
    -Ben Franklin, Poor Richard’s Almanac

     

    I try to be smart about Christmas spending. My oldest is 15, mind, so I’ve had plenty of time to work out the kinks, and this is what works for us.

    A Dedicated Christmas Account

    I have an ING savings account and an ING checking account. Both have no minimum. I have $25 a week automatically transferred to the savings account from our primary bank account. It collects interest all year.

    Then, when I’m ready to go Christmas shopping, I transfer the money from the savings account to the checking account, and use that account’s card to pay for Christmas presents.

    It’s easy, it works, it keeps us from running up a credit card bill in December.

    Deal Sites

    In the interest of not giving too much “stuff” I keep an eye on Groupon, Living Social, and the like for deals on restaurants, massages, classes, fun experiences. A great non-clutter gift idea for kids (plus no worries about dupes!); throw in an attached offer to babysit for others with kids of their own. You can buy these throughout the year, just be aware of the deal’s expiration date. (Of course, you can also buy actual stuff on those sites as well—  I just use the money already accumulating in my ING Christmas account.)

    Buy Less

    Pare down your shopping list. Don’t feel bad about it, just make sure you discuss with anyone involved. You’d be surprised how many people would be perfectly happy to forego a gift if it means one less task during the holiday season.

    Change Jar

    I try to do all my in-real-life transactions with cash money. Change goes into the change jar. It adds up crazy fast.

    In August we cash in the change jar and that funds meals eaten out and the kids’ spending money (think arcade, mini golf, ice cream). In December we cash it in again and the kids use that to buy the supplies they use to make presents for family members (sometimes supplemented by small gifts from a school Santa’s Workshop or a trip to the dollar store).

    The Value of a Dollar

    When I was a kid, all I ever really wanted was books. And the series I read usually went for $1.25, $1.95 per title. Occasionally I’d see something in the Woolworth toy aisle and I’d note the price stickered on the box… and save up my dollars and cents.

    It’s different today. Walking through the toy section at Target can be overwhelming— and the prices are not always clearly marked. Our kids get so many toys and books and things all year long, and they have no real concept of cost. Want something? Put it on a wishlist and maybe someone will buy it for your birthday or Christmas present.

    (Not knocking the wishlist, folks. My kids all have them, and so do I. They’re great for getting people what they want… not so much for teaching kids about saving, expenses or relative cost.)

    My practical Christmas budget came about after many years of not realizing how much we were spending. I’d like to save my kids those painful, expensive lessons if possible. So what’s a good way to help our kids become financially capable in a practical, real-world way?

    Virtual Piggy

    Well, there’s a new wishlist in town. And it looks like a safe, smart way to give your kids a little freedom to (potentially) make ‘mistakes’ to learn from— while learning to save, budget and not threatening YOUR credit card balance.

    It’s called Virtual Piggy. First, the parent registers their account, providing a preferred credit card and a shipping address. They then create an account for each child and set controls like approved merchants, transaction limits, whether every transaction needs parental approval or just those exceeding x amount or x transactions a week.

    When a child shops, it’s within the parameters the parent has set. And— this is importantthey log in using their own account name & password. All of the financial and shipping information is stored in the parent account. Your child is not giving out sensitive personal info on the internet.

    Note from experience: it’s very easy for kids to think “oh, it’s only a 99 cent app” or “Mom won’t mind me buying a $5 book”… that can add up FAST with three kids not paying attention. Like, $116 in one month fast.

    With Virtual Piggy, your child can balance spending and savings goals, visualize charity goals, and see their purchase history. They get to spend money in a real world way, but safely and within your limits.

    The Virtual Piggy wishlist is a place to store those products they’d like to save up for— but parents can see it and invite others to view it as well for present-buying. (Or, perhaps, giving an earmarked amount towards a gift the child is saving for.)

    Win Your Wishlist Sweepstakes

    ‘Tis the season for giving! Virtual Piggy is giving 10 kids (ages 6 and up) the contents of their Wishlist (value up to $500).

    Get extra entries by sharing Win Your Wishlist on social media, and getting friends to register and join. Must enter by December 7th, so get moving! Start your wishlist now.

     

    Would love to hear your Christmas budgeting ideas, and how you’re teaching kids about money.

     

     

     

     

     

  • Wishing You: A Very Furry Christmas at Sesame Place

    Wishing You: A Very Furry Christmas at Sesame Place

     

    Our hearts grow tender with childhood memories and love of kindred,

    and we are better throughout the year for having, in spirit,

    become a child again at Christmas-time.

    ―Laura Ingalls Wilder

     

    I have this thing about Christmas. Don’t get me wrong, I love it, I just think it should stay in December where it belongs.

    But the combination of Sesame Street and Christmas at Sesame Place’s A Very Furry Christmas was too much even for me. They do a great job doing Christmas up right; my curmudgeonly heart felt all full of Christmas cheer even though I hadn’t had my turkey yet, and that’s really saying quite a lot.

    My little niece Eva was unavailable for this excursion, and I wasn’t sure at first if I should go. Jeff felt our kids are too old for Sesame Place. Jacob had other plans anyway.

    But on an impulse I messaged my childhood buddy Larry and his wife April, who have a daughter only two weeks older than Cass, and they were awesome enough to meet me at the Street on short notice.

     

    This is Larry. And the Count.
    Larry is on the left. 

     

    (I was originally going to include a shot of the two of us at my freshman year Christmas dance, but figured that would be unnecessarily embarrassing for everybody. My early holiday gift to you!)

    Make no mistake, Sesame Place is magical any time of the year, but the Christmas carols playing, characters in holiday finery, snow falling and Christmas lights shared with friends made this one of the best days I’ve had in a long time. I couldn’t stop dancing. That was probably embarrassing for everybody as well, but as far as I know no photographic evidence exists.

     

     

    Oh, and I think the girls had fun too. Too old for Sesame Place? Not even close. Heck, I’m pretty sure I’m not too old for Sesame Place.

    Please note: this is a very photo heavy post. And this is just a fraction of the photos and videos taken. Sesame Place is a camera-happy parent’s dream.

     

     

    After an hour in the Dine with Me restaurant loading up on festive cookies, Rice Krispie treats, cupcakes, hot chocolate and apple cider, and being photographed with the characters, we spent the rest of the day cruising for more photo ops, watching the girls go on rides and the nets, and taking in the parades and lights.

    Originally I thought we’d leave fairly early… that once it got dark and we saw the lights, we’d get cold and bounce. Nope, we stayed until just about the end, we were having so much fun… and we didn’t even see everything! A Very Furry Christmas has:

    • a 25-foot Christmas Tree that lights up the night in sync with Sesame Street holiday tunes (this was fun)
    • THREE Christmas shows
    • Santa’s Workshop: the big man in red on hand listening to Christmas wishes and posing for photos (Santa was great)
    • Sesame Place Furry Express, a brand new trackless train ride, which takes guests on a tour through the Twiddlebugs’ Gingerbread Cookie Factory and ends the journey with samples of their famous gingerbread treats (we missed this entirely!! Booo!!! I love the Twiddlebugs)
    • concerts and character meet and greets (Imagination Movers was there the day we were, but we didn’t go see them.)
    • lights, lights, everywhere. So pretty.

     

    the girls were amazed by the “snow”

     

     

    Random highlights:

     

    The girls marked on the map all the places we stopped and saw a character, or went on a ride, or whatever. It was Ava’s idea, and I think if you have kids who get antsy waiting for the parade or in ride lines this is a smart way to keep them occupied.

    Near the front of the park there is a vending machine filled with individual diapers, wipes, disposable cameras, diaper rash ointment, bandaids, formula, pacifiers, a carabiner that fits onto a stroller handle… flipping genius if you ask me.

    I believe I saw another vending machine with gluten-free snacks and indeed gluten-free was available in a number of spots throughout the park (the Starbucks definitely being one).

    We had a bit of a scraped knee incident and visited the First Aid office, where the staff was speedy and generally lovely to deal with.

    We learned it can take a little while for the photographs taken around the park to be downloaded for purchase. FYI.

    There were warming stations that looked like lamp posts strategically placed around the park to keep you comfortable.

    The potato soup is not vegetarian.

    The parade is just as fun to watch a second time, in the dark.

     

     

    And, if you yell his name loudly enough, Cookie Monster will in fact turn and gape at you 🙂

     

    I’m hoping to make this a new Christmas tradition! My boys were sad they didn’t go once they saw the photos, and I can not wait to take Eva next year. Fun for young and old kids alike. Even if you’ve done Sesame Place tons of times before, A Very Furry Christmas is a hugely rewarding holiday experience, totally worth the price of admission.

    YOU should go this year.

    • Dec 1 & 2, 2012 (1-8 PM ): A Very Furry Christmas Variety Days
    • Dec 8 & 9, 2012 (1-7 PM ): Sprout’s Pajama Party Weekend
    • Dec 26 & 27, 2012 (1-7 PM ): Caillou Meet & Greets
    • Open daily from December 26th through December 31st
    • AND Sesame Place will celebrate New Year’s Eve with fireworks set to Sesame Street themed music.

     

    Admission tickets for A Very Furry Christmas are $21.99 and include a free second visit. Guests with 2012 and 2013 Season Passes can upgrade their Season Pass to include unlimited admission to all 20 operating days of a Very Furry Christmas and a 30% discount on food and merchandise for $14.99.

    For a complete schedule and all the deets go to sesameplace.com.

     

     

     

    Disclosure: I received four admission tickets to A Very Furry Christmas as part of Media Day. All opinions are entirely my own!