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  • The 5 Best Toys for Creative, Active Outdoor Play

    The 5 Best Toys for Creative, Active Outdoor Play

    silly face

    It is a happy talent to know how to play.
    -Ralph Waldo Emerson

    As we drift from spring to summer I’m seeing a TON of (plastic, expensive) toys advertised for summer play.

    Maverick and I were talking about the best things to play with outdoors, and ultimately decided that the best toys are the ones that don’t come with instructions (for putting together or for playing with). We put together this list of five toys that kids of any age will find entertaining, and some suggestions for their play use, although kids won’t need ’em. They’re open-ended for physical and/or creative play, they’re highly portable, and they’re equally enjoyable for littles, not-so-littles and adults to play with together.

    The best part? You could conceivably buy every item on this list for a total cost of, I don’t know, 30 bucks at most. In my humble opinion, these 5 things assembled into a big box would be the bestest gift set for a kid’s birthday. Or a just-because gift for the kid-at-heart.


    The Only 5 Toys Any Kid Really Needs
    (some minor cheating involved)

     

    1. A Ball to Kick & Throw

    I recommend the kickball: you know, those rubber playground balls. They make THE most satisfying thwap sound when you kick or catch them. Play traditional kickball, dodgeball, wallball, soccer, basketball (keep in mind that a goal or a net can easily be approximated with pails, baskets, or just chalk-drawn lines. There is NO need to buy those for at-home use).


    The tennis ball is another option. If you’re lucky enough to have a dog that will fetch for you, we’re talking hours of easy entertainment. When I was a kid, I would happily toss a tennis ball against the side of the house for forever, catching after the first bounce (and I’m glorying in the memory of the sound as I type this: boom, bounce, catch. Boom, bounce, catch). A tennis ball is probably also a better idea for a toddler just starting to throw and catch. And, of course, you can pull together a makeshift round of baseball, golf, croquet or tennis using some sticks or branches (or in the case of croquet, flamingos).

    Ball play doesn’t just keep children moving; it builds mind-body coordination and naturally lends to understanding of simple physics and geometry. Introduce a ball to a group of kids with nothing else to do and you’ll see creative teamwork and active communication as they decide on a game and flesh out what the rules are; social skill-building as they challenge and debate what’s “out” and what’s fair.

    2. A Rope to Jump

    Honestly, I recommend two, for double-dutch or just so you can jump along with your child. Jumping rope is AWESOME cardio and the impact helps build bone density. It also makes kids more body aware and coordinated, which will help out in any other sport or athletic endeavor. The imaginative possibilities for a length of rope are great: a jump rope can be put to use as a tightrope or lion-tamer’s whip, as Tarzan’s primary mode of transport, for designating goals for ball play or “safe” zones for tag, for tying bad guys to tree trunks.

    The rope pictured is an eco-model, 100% U.S.-made cotton rope (7 feet long and adjustable) and 100% recycled plastic handles. For a refresher on the rhymes we used to chant on the schoolyard (which build memorization, rhythm and speech skills!), try Anna Banana: 101 Jump Rope Rhymes; prices on used copies start at a penny.


    3. A Flying Saucer

    The frisbee is probably my favorite toy. As it is subject to the whims of any winds passing by it’s an equal-opportunity for cardio (meaning that no matter how talented you are at flinging and jumping, you’re probably still going to have to run after the thing). I could pass a frisbee back and forth for a good long time before I got bored, but frisbee baseball or frisbee golf are great semi-organized games for kids of all ages to play together— the relative skill set is pretty much irrelevant. In terms of imaginative play, the frisbee doubles as home plate, a dinner plate or a hat to balance on your head 🙂

    The frisbee pictured is an “EcoSaucer” made from recycled milk containers & grocery bags, and the packaging is recyclable. We have this one and I think it cost us five bucks.


    4. Tarp/Length of Fabric

    Even an old sheet would do, but I would spring for something like this one, which is lightweight, water-resistant and folds into its own case with handles. (Also comes in a bunch of colors.) It’s a tent, a picnic blanket, a cape, a tablecloth, a cloak of invisibility, a wedding veil, a set of wings, a parachute, a raft… you get the idea. The sky’s the limit as long as it’s theirs and they don’t have to worry about getting it dirty or messing it up.

    5. A Deck of Cards

    Sometimes, a kid’s gotta rest. Sometimes it rains. You can play cards by yourself or with friend(s); you can play a game you both know, or teach/learn a new game, or make one up. The really talented can build a house of cards (I do not fall into that category, but my husband does).

    We jump to the notion that cards are boring, but I think I’m probably not alone when I say I have very specific childhood memories attached to the tactile feel of a playing card, and to the sound of a sharp shuffle. In any case, we have a lot of possible educational benefits here: memorization, development of small motor skills, basic math concepts & patterns, quick decision making, anticipatory decision making, statistics, not to mention the opportunities to learn to read body language, to focus, and to just plain sit still for periods of time.

    The set pictured is an eco-edition printed on sustainable forest papers, with starch-based laminating and vegetable-based inks. Both deck and case are fully recyclable. It sells for about four bucks.

    BONUS: Don’t forget about the big box.

    No, I’m not kidding. I think this would make a great gift set for ANYONE, but especially kids of a certain age if packaged in a big ol’ box. Go to an appliance store and ask for something massive. Seriously. Think how much fun that kid will have in his clubhouse/ spaceship/ cave/ castle/ secret hideout/ whatever (and then it can be folded and used as a sled on a grassy slope).

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    In play a child always behaves beyond his average age, above his daily behavior.

    In play it is as though he were a head taller than himself.

    -Lev Vygotsky (Russian psychologist)

    Children learn by playing, and what they learn most is who they are and what they are capable of. We do them a disservice when we provide them with toys that are too solitary, too narrow in purpose, or too complicated. Or even with just too many. Keep it simple and open-ended, add plenty of free time and room to roam, and join in when you can… recapture some of those joys of childhood for yourself, and let your kids teach you a new game while you’re at it. Get out in the sunshine and play!

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    Now, there were some serious contenders that didn’t make the final cut (for instance, a bike, since it’s not technically something you “play” with), so maybe I’ll write those up as a “booster pack” sort of post.

    But first I’ll ask you: what toys would you include in your “Top Five Must-Have Toys of Childhood?

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  • Last Child in the Woods: Raising Backyard Naturalists

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    Teaching children about the natural world should be treated as one of the most important events of their lives.
    -Thomas Berry

    In his book Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children From Nature-Deficit Disorder Richard Louv links the troubling trends in childhood obesity, diabetes, attention-deficit disorders, and depression, to the increasing disconnect between children and nature.

    The most obvious culprit is “screen time”: TV, computer, video games.

    But there are other factors, too. Even I, hippie-dippie earth mother that I try to be, am guilty of some of these:

    • Fear of the Bogeyman. Our property is bordered on one side by a crumbling, never-used side street that ends in a huge field. This field is part of a state nature preserve and hiking trails lead off it, eventually ending in a creek. Not only do I not allow my older children to travel down this road, but I don’t even go down it alone. No matter how unlikely it is that any of us would be attacked or abducted- and it is, statistically, extremely unlikely- I can’t walk down this road without a feeling of trepidation, mentally framing tomorrow’s headlines.
    • Fear of accidental, self-inflicted harm. My husband is the guilty party here: I know that as a child he must have built things, wielded nails and hammers, climbed trees. This is directly responsible for his hands-on abilities today, his creative instinct in practical endeavors, his “out-of-the-box” thinking. And he knows that. But he is convinced the children are going to going to require a trip to the emergency room, if he leaves them to their own devices for even a moment. He lives in mortal fear that they will get hurt. He rarely allows the kids to do things with their own hands, and if they do, he watches over them like a hawk. A nervous, bossy, stifling hawk.
    • Fear of nature. “Don’t go in the woodpile- there’s probably snakes and god knows what else.” “Careful you don’t get stung.” “Don’t touch any plants you can’t identify, it’s probably poison ivy.” If we issue too many warnings, the kids will just give up and go inside. Nature will seem just too dangerous and not worth the trouble.
    • Lack of solitude. Kids need solitary time, time to immerse themselves in the world around them, to identify their place in it. They need peaceful, unbroken quiet, to develop confidence in themselves, a strong inner voice, a real sense of who they are. Louv points out that many of history’s greatest thinkers, creators, and inventors relate a specific and vivid incident from their childhood, wherein they experienced a solitary moment in nature that took on a spiritual aspect; a moment of clarity. This moment serves a vital purpose; it is a cause for future reflection and motivation, a touchstone to youthful optimism and wonder. (My moment, by the way, was feeding squirrels at the bus stop, something I did all the time, when suddenly one sat up on his hind legs and started to chatter and scold at me. I could not have been more shocked if it had produced a pocketwatch and done the macarena. If squirrels talk, I wondered, what else do I not know about?) I tend to send my kids out as a team, figuring there is safety in numbers. They probably could use more time alone. I do not want to have their moment of zen stolen from them.
    • Lack of trust. Louv recounts a Ben Franklin story, where young Ben steals stones from a local quarry after the workers have left for the day. He is constructing a jetty for people to fish from, and when caught, argues that he is performing a civic service. His father, after having him return the ill-gotten goods and apologize, explains that honesty is the real civic service in this situation….Over the weekend we passed a large, open lumberyard. My husband remarked that “This must be where all the local kids steal their wood for treehouses.” Somehow, I doubt it. We don’t let our kids out of our sight, partly because we fear this very sort of heathenism. But, we cannot argue that Ben Franklin learned an important lesson that day about stealing, honesty, and personal responsibility. By not allowing our children the room to make mistakes- even illegal ones- are we depriving them of lessons learned? To frame it another way, if we do not allow them the chance to violate our trust, do we form them into future citizens worthy of trust? Are we making clockwork oranges of our children?
    • An overemphasis on nature as an “other”, something distant and apart. Yes, we want our children to save the earth. We want them to help polar bears and save the rainforest. But what about the right here and the right now? Are we causing nature to take on an abstract form in their minds? Does the concept become too large for them to see?

    This last one is the “big thing”, I think, for me. This is my call to action. This is something I can do, actively; in fact, have already begun. I can bring about personal intimacy with our immediate environment. I will work on the other points, too, but this is the one that has me rubbing my hands together. Goodie, a project.

    Louv worries about the abilities of future generations to see problems in the environment as they occur; if no children are skimming ponds for tadpoles, how will they know when those numbers begin dropping? If they are not learning to identify and name insects and wildflowers, will they notice when they are gone? If they are not outside at night to hear the spring peepers, who will sound the alarm when the night air is silent?

    “[What is the] extinction of a condor
    to a child who has never seen a wren?”
    -Robert Michael Pyle

    Yes. I will take my kids out-of-doors. Together we will “name all the animals”.

    “Humans seldom value what they cannot name.”
    -Elaine Brooks

    This is my pledge: We will become backyard naturalists. We will look for, identify, and record everything our backyard wilderness contains. We will share, with exuberance, everything that we learn. When we have become satisfied that we know our property, we will move on to the nature preserve. To the river. To the watershed. Who knows how far we can go?

    Love for the Earth first means love for the earth. The small and the familiar.

    “Though it’s a small area, just a square mile or two, it took me many trips to even start to learn its secrets. Here there are blueberries, and here there are bigger blueberries…You pass a hundred different plants along the trail- I know maybe twenty of them. One could spend a lifetime learning a small range of mountains, and once upon a time people did.”
    -Bill McKibben, in The Age of Missing Information

     

    “To quote the words of Professor Abraham Joshua Heschel…our goal should be to live life in radical amazement…Everything is phenomenal; everything is incredible; never treat life casually. To be spiritual is to be amazed.”
    -Rabbi Martin Levin

    P.S. In a really bizarre instance of blogosphere serendipity, as I was casting about trying to find a good photo to accompany this review, my husband walked in and said that a toad was hopping around him outside, did I want to show the kids? And take a picture? What, you mean just like the cover of the book? Sure I do. Thank you, blogosphere.

    backyard naturalist

    Please note: All quotes in this post come via Last Child in the Woods, not from my personal stash.

    I still have lots to say on this subject, so stay tuned! If you are a parent, truly you need to read this book. Twice.

    More information about Richard Louv and the movement his book has inspired, No Child Left Inside, can be located at the Child & Nature Network.

    Book #1 of the Still a Bookworm Challenge for Green Bean Dreams: Done. Next up: Rachel Carson’s Silent Spring.

    Maverick is reading the companion book to Last Child in the Woods, entitled I Love Dirt!: 52 Activities to Help You and Your Kids Discover the Wonders of Nature . I’ll have him let you know what he thinks. The book is meant for adults, but, whatever, the kid likes to read.

    Finally, I cannot at present name or identify this toad, but I will let you know when I do.