Category: Conscious Consumerism: Shopping & Reviews

  • Ollies Blocks and the Building Blocks of Creativity

    Ollies Blocks and the Building Blocks of Creativity

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    Children must be taught how to think, not what to think.
    ― Margaret Mead

    There’s lots of jokes about how your parenting changes from your oldest child to your youngest, but I think for me the most dramatic change was in the stuff I chose for them to play with. Jake, being our first child and also the first grandchild, was admittedly pretty spoiled; his first Christmas (at six weeks old, he slept through the whole thing) was an embarrassment of excess, including not one, not two but three of that year’s coveted Tickle Me Elmo doll. He had tons of toys, all of which seemingly lit up or made noise or moved all around but certainly required batteries. Most of them carried some claim of having educational or developmental value.

    Then Maverick came along, with an obsession for cars and trains and puzzles and Play-Doh and things like Lego and Bionicle that had a million parts and exacting instructions for how they were to be put together. We had bins upon bins of these things. It was an explosive plastic nightmare that we stealthily packed up and hid away while we were preparing to sell our house, never to be seen again.

    With Cass, we took a far different approach, and it’s influenced the gifts I choose to give other kids now.

    • I require toys to not be capable of vocalizing on their own power. This is non-negotiable after owning several Furbys.
    • I need them to still be fun even if you lose a few pieces, and not to require buying bins upons bins worth of pieces to be able to make anything good.
    • They have to be easy for little hands to clean up after and to store.
    • I prefer they be aesthetically pleasing— something adults don’t mind seeing on a shelf when not in use.
    • I want creativity— the act of creating— to be a vital part of the toy’s makeup.
    • I gravitate towards toys that are eco-friendly, batteries not required.
    • I invest in toys that can be handed down: durable, fixable and timeless.

    What that means is that Cass had fewer toys than her brothers by a looooong shot, but they’re still around for her younger cousins to play with when they come over, and eventually we’ll give them a good cleaning or sanding down and hand them off. And it meant that most of those toys were of the building variety: high quality block, magnet, gear, circuit sets.

    Construction sets are the building blocks of creative and critical thinking. They help teach kids how to think. Kids have to conceive of something to create, and then break down the steps that will take them there. Fine motor skills and hand to eye coordination are strengthened. Patience is practiced through ongoing, low pressure trial and error. Balance and gravity are tested. Relative sizes are eyeballed and confirmed. There’s a lot going on here, and at the end you have a finished product you can display or, satisfyingly, take apart knowing you can always do it again later.

    Plus they are age and gender neutral! Building sets are simply a lot of bang for your buck.

    Ollie's Blocks

    Ollies Blocks are made with high quality oak wood— sourced from surplus direct from wood artisans whenever possible— combined with durable interlocking plastic pegs. To me they are reminiscent of Erector sets (the good ones from when I was a kid, not the plastic versions available now) but less painful underfoot and much more pleasing to the eye and touch.

    Ollies Blocks are actually a reboot of another construction set from that time. (Like the music from the 90s, I’m convinced I lived through the golden years of toys. It’s not nostalgia, they were just the best eras for toys and music PERIOD.) “Yael’s Wooden Toys” were manufactured by Ollies’ founder Haran Yaffe’s father, and named after Haran’s sister. Now, Haran and his father are bringing the family blocks back for a new generation to enjoy, and they’ve been renamed for Haran’s daughter Olivia. Which is a detail that I find irresistibly adorable.

    Yael's blocksOriginal 80s packaging

    Ollies Blocks are currently at the Kickstarter stage with a little over two days left to go. They’re reached their Kickstarter goal, so you know if you jump in to back now you’ll receive your blocks! The estimated delivery is set for September 2016— just a few months away, and well before Christmas. The prices are on par for a quality construction set, with a few awesome tiers (for instance, if you donate a 50 piece set to a hospital the company will kick in a bonus 25 pieces).

    Not to tell you what to do or anything, but I think I’d personally spring for the 200 piece set for $149 and break it up between a couple of kids; like most things the prices get better the bigger the set you invest in.

    Take a look at Ollies Blocks here!

     

  • The Hoopla over Honest Sunscreen + 8 Rules for Sun Safety

    The Hoopla over Honest Sunscreen + 8 Rules for Sun Safety

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    You may have seen the stories circulating— folks are complaining that Honest sunscreen doesn’t work. They’re upset because they selected Honest (Jessica Alba’s company) as a non-toxic alternative they trusted to keep their own and their children’s skin safe.

    It appears that the issues started once Honest reformulated their SPF 30 sunscreen lotion “for 80-minute water resistance and an improved formulation that allows for easier application and a lighter-weight feel.” To that end, they added shea butter and plant based oils while cutting the amount of zinc oxide in the tubes from 20 percent to 9.3 percent (Honest points to the fact that they “received the best score possible from the Environmental Working Group (EWG)” but their profile on that list includes the 20% zinc oxide, suggesting the determination was based on the earlier formula).

    Honest has pulled the product from its site, but poking around I saw listings that touted “non whitening” as a selling point.

    The FDA requires companies to test their own products, but doesn’t verify the results of those tests. Companies are also not required to share those test results with the public. And, manufacturers aren’t required to test their sunscreens on human skin. I couldn’t find it stated explicitly anywhere on their site but I think it’s safe to assume Honest is cruelty free, so they most likely relied on labs testing their sunscreen’s rates of absorption or “scattering” of UV rays.

    OK, so there’s a lot to talk about here. Let’s dive in.

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    Why Honest uses zinc oxide (and you should too)

    “Chemical” sunscreens— misleading, by the way; even water is a chemical, but that’s a topic for another day— are meant to applied some time before you are exposed to the sun. The reason for this is that the sunscreen is formulated to soak into your skin to absorb UV radiation, and contains some questionable ingredients that have been linked to hormone disruption (oxybenzone) and cancer (retinyl palmitate).

    The oxybenzone that washes off skin in the ocean has also been implicated in the die-off of coral reefs: an estimated 4,000 to 6,000 metric tons of sunscreen washes off swimmers’ bodies annually.

    Zinc oxide, on the other hand, sits on top of your skin as a physical barrier, scattering UV rays to protect the skin beneath. There is minimal absorption and so radically reduces the odds of toxic impact to your body. (Badger Balm does a great job explaining zinc oxide 101 here.) Zinc oxide has not been shown to cause harm to the corals.

    Takeaway: I’m not going to point and scream TOXIC! or CANCER! but I’m not comfortable with the questionable ingredients in “chemical” sunscreens, since sunscreen is meant to be used liberally and whenever you’re going to be in the sun. I have concerns about how those ingredients interact with others I already carry as part of my “toxic burden.” And I really have concerns about how the coral reefs are being affected.

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    Zinc Oxide is white. Deal with it.

    My main issue with this whole story is that— allegedly, as I’m relying on articles about it— Honest reformulated their sunscreen in response to customer complaints about the look and feel of the product, not effectiveness.

    They could have, should have posted a sensible statement like “Honest uses zinc oxide because it provides broad spectrum coverage by deflecting UV radiation from the top of your skin, rather than absorbing into it. To be truly effective, zinc oxide needs to be used at a concentration that causes a whiteness that won’t necessarily fade when rubbed in, and requires suspension in a relatively thick carrier. We at Honest care about the effectiveness of our product and the safety of your skin.”

    Instead, they decided to cut efficacy and cater to the vanity and hyper-sensitivity I imagine they saw as characteristic of their demographic. At least, that’s the way it feels to me. “But our customers deserve to look and feel fabulous at all times, especially while soaking up the sun!”

    (Here’s a thought: why didn’t they just tint the sunscreen?)

    Takeaway: in order for zinc oxide to work effectively it will be at least a little white and at least a little thick. You want your sunscreen to be effective. Aesthetics are not a primary concern here. Safety>sexy.

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    The blame may not all be with the sunscreen, though

    Since the zinc oxide amount was cut in the new lotion, it follows that you’d need to lay that nonsense on thick to get adequate coverage. I’m guessing that didn’t happen, although in all fairness if you’d previously purchased Honest SPF sunscreen you wouldn’t expect different results.

    Also, since other ingredients were added, you’d need to shake/knead the container to spread the zinc out somewhat evenly. Zinc oxide is a mineral, a physical thing, and it can settle. So maybe what happened to at least some of those who got burned is that they hit a section with less zinc.

    Takeaway: don’t get burned by user error. Shake or knead the container before applying to distribute the zinc oxide in sunscreen before applying, and lay it on thick

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    Honestly, you’re probably not using enough sunscreen

    I’ve been sunburned only twice in my life. I’m fairly dark skinned, but that’s not the reason. I loathe getting tanned because it happens to me so quickly; I get new tan lines while just waiting in line at the farmers’ market or driving to pick up the kids from a friend’s house and it looks ridiculous. I avoid the sun like the plague during the peak hours of 10am through 2pm. If I’m spending any real time outdoors I wear sunscreen, especially on my face.

    Both times that I burned were at the beach. The first time was early morning, like 6-9am, when I fell asleep on the sand. The second (just a few weeks ago) was when I used a sunscreen I’d been given that wasn’t waterproof; I stayed on the beach longer than I’d expected after hitting the waves and never reapplied.

    You’re supposed to use one ounce, or a shotglass full of sunscreen every time you apply. Rule of thumb is to apply every two hours when you’re staying out in the sun. Yes, it’s expensive. Yes, cancer is more expensive. Your risk for melanoma doubles if you’ve had five or more sunburns over your lifetime.

    Takeaway: read the bottle and follow the directions. Not all sunscreens are waterproof. If the zinc oxide concentration is low you need to apply even more than the standard shotglass full. Reapply before you start to burn.

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    Final takeaways

    If I’m being honest I never much cared for Jessica Alba and so I’ve never tried any of her company’s products. But this whole situation serves as a reminder to take a good look at ingredients and claims, even from “natural” and “non toxic” companies. An ingredient occurring in nature does not mean it is safe or effective, and not all ingredients or claims are regulated by the FDA. Do your research.

    That said, the company appears to be taking a legitimate and personal approach to rectifying the situation. If you had a bad experience they list a phone number you can call here.

    By the way. I don’t champion the need for sunscreen 100% of the time; I think we need some exposure to reap the health benefits of sunshine. But anytime you’re going to be out between 10am and 2pm: yes. Anytime you’ll be out in direct sun for more than 30 minutes: yes. On your arms when going for a long drive: yes.

    But if all that’s available when you’re at the pool or beach is a “chemical” sunscreen, then go ahead and use it. We’re talking about possible bad outcomes from these products, and it’s sensible to not gravitate towards them. But we know skin cancer is linked to excess sun. Any sunscreen is better than none for prolonged or direct exposure.

    And dammit, there’s no such thing as a “base burn” or “base tan.” Tan means skin damage, period.

    OK, recap time.

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    8 No Nonsense Rules for Sun Safety

    1. Don’t burn. 5 sunburns over a lifetime double your risk of melanoma.
    2. Even if you have dark skin you need sunscreen.
    3. Read sunscreen directions and follow them.
    4. Zinc oxide is the preferred active ingredient and the concentration should be somewhere around 20%.
    5. Shake or knead container to distribute active ingredients before applying.
    6. Apply liberally and often; efficacy is more important than vanity.
    7. Be especially vigilant between 10am and 2pm but you can still burn at other times.
    8. Any sunscreen is better than none.

    This is EWG’s list of the best sunscreens for sports and the beach, based on their standards for efficacy and ingredient safety. From that list I can personally vouch for Badger, Beyond Coastal, Belli, California Baby, COOLA, Green Goddess and Juice Beauty (links go to reviews).

     

    Did you get burned by Honest sunscreen?

    What non toxic sunscreens can you vouch for?

     

     

     

  • Natural and Organic Skin Care: Baby Mantra

    Natural and Organic Skin Care: Baby Mantra

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    Tell me I’m clever,
    Tell me I’m kind,
    Tell me I’m talented,
    Tell me I’m cute,
    Tell me I’m sensitive,
    Graceful and wise,
    Tell me I’m perfect—
    But tell me the truth.

    -Shel Silverstein

    When Jacob was a baby he was clever, cute, and perfect in every way like babies should be, but he had horrible eczema: you can see the patches on his cheeks in the photo above. They call eczema “the itch that rashes” and “asthma of the skin” and it’s heartbreaking to witness as a parent; he was clearly in distress all the time, scratching, scratching, until the rash had spread and thickened and was scratched raw. He scratched in his sleep, even, writhing around in bed until he scratched himself awake. And then invariably all that open skin would become infected, inflamed and painful, and he’d have to endure a round of antibiotics or steroid cream in addition to his twice a day full-body slathering of lotion.

    Let me tell you about the lotion. We were supposed to apply the lotion immediately after a bath or shower to trap the moisture in, and Jake would be off like a shot, having to be tackled and wrestled into acceptance. He’d scream and cry; it was only through trial and error that we learned which soaps and lotions stung, which ones made the itch feel worse. We spent a lot of money on pricey skin care items (and hair care, since that affected his skin too) that made promises about being super-moisturizing or appropriate for sensitive skin, that Jeff or I would up using because Jake couldn’t tolerate them.

    Add to all that heartache the fact that your skin is your largest organ, and absorbs whatever chemicals you’re applying to it along with any environmental toxins. I was seriously stressed about the health of Jake’s susceptible skin, in the short term and the long.

    jake scratching

    (Scratch, scratch, scratch. I wanted to put a photo here of Jake running away from the lotion after a bath; he’s holding a beach ball perfectly positioned as a “modesty patch.” But I resisted. I’m so good at adulting.)

    Jacob is older now, but he still has eczema flareups. Part of it is probably inherited from me; I have sensitive skin and break out in itchy, blistering hives from certain products. I’ve found that sticking with natural, organic products hugely— HUGELY— minimizes my own outbreaks and helps Jake with his.

    Last week I was sent a line of natural baby skincare products to try from Baby Mantra:

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    Even though my babies are pretty close to grown now— Jake will be 18 in a few months, and my youngest just turned 11!— I still look for the gentlest products available for our sensitive skin. Just being advertised as “for babies” doesn’t cut it; we stubbornly kept buying conventional baby products in the early years but learned soon enough that they stung terribly and exacerbated the problem when applied to Jake’s irritated skin.

    I wish Baby Mantra had been around when Jake was suffering from the worst of his eczema.

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    All Baby Mantra products are:

    • allergy tested
    • dye free and toxin free
    • gluten free
    • cruelty free and vegan
    • certified natural by the Natural Products Association, which means ingredients come from or are made from a renewable, biodegradable resource found in nature (flora, fauna, mineral), with absolutely no petroleum compounds
    • packaged in recyclable materials

    I took the line with me to the beach with the intention of having Jake try it out (to this day, trying new lotions on him is a bit nerve wracking). While I was there I was a little lax about reapplying my sunscreen and, erm, got a little more sun than I intended. It hurt. My daughter got a little more pink than I would like as well.

    baby mantra beach

    Baby Mantra offers a natural baby shampoo in addition to its natural baby conditioner,but I opted to pack the 3 in 1 bubble bath, shampoo and wash in case anyone was inclined to take a bath (didn’t happen but I was prepared!). I did pack the detangling conditioner (my hair is a tangled hot mess at the beach, and Cass’s tend to resemble a rat’s nest more than human hair after a day battling waves). And in a move that I would grow to be immensely thankful for, I also threw the calming lotion in my bag.

    All three of these products contain lavendar essential oil, which is soothing and has antiseptic properties. They didn’t irritate my burn at all, and the lotion felt like heaven: it’s light and not sticky, very moisturizing thanks to the shea butter, with barely any scent at all. In terms of calming my skin, it felt like it worked just as well as the medicated afterburn lotion I tried once I returned home. Since the medicated stuff carried a warning to use only 2-3 times daily, and not over a wide area, I opted to skip it entirely and go with baby mantra for me and Cass.

    The 3 in 1 lathered up nicely and got my sweaty, salty self all clean without drying; the conditioner worked the knots out. They both carry very light scents that basically remind me of “clean baby” and faded quickly (I don’t care for overpowering scents at all).

    baby mantra shower

    Although I didn’t put the other Baby Mantra products through the same rigorous testing, from my one use of the newborn shampoo and body wash I can say that it’s not bubble inducing like the 3 in 1 is and therefore easier to rinse clean. The sweet-smelling apricot and avocado massage oil is expectedly more oily/tacky than the lotion; I used this before bedtime for longterm moisturization overnight. We’ll hold onto the diaper rash ointment for my husband; he works in construction and often gets painfully dry, cracked hands and only the heaviest duty creams work for him. It’s made from sweet Almond oil, Rosemary leaf, and Jojoba.

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    To recap:

    Baby Mantra’s earth-friendly range of extremely gentle personal care products for children (newborn to 8 years old) are made with all-natural skincare ingredients. Baby Mantra products have been certified by the Natural Products Association (NPA), are gluten-free, allergy-tested and cruelty-free.

    You can find Baby Mantra products across the country at stores like Albertsons, Jewel Osco, Walgreens, Duane Reade and Meijer. We recommend using the store locator on the company’s website to find a store nearest you. In addition, Baby Mantra can be found online on websites such as Amazon.com, Babiesrus.com, Drugstore.com, Walgreens.com and Diapers.com.

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    Score a coupon for $2.50 off Baby Mantra here!

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    • 3-in-1 Bubble Bath, Shampoo & Wash
    • Calming Lotion
    • Newborn Shampoo & Wash
    • Diaper Rash Ointment
    • Calming Massage Oil
    • Detangling Conditioner

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    Disclosure: I received this product for the purpose of this review, however, these are my own opinions and they have not been influenced in any way by Baby Mantra.