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  • Fashion Friday: Bring Back the Housecoat!

    Fashion Friday: Bring Back the Housecoat!

    house coat pattern

    “Think simple” as my old master used to say—

    meaning reduce the whole of its parts into the simplest terms,

    getting back to first principles.

    -Frank Lloyd Wright

    A few weeks ago I ran across this video for the koobli™: a “unisex cover-up garment designed to protect your clothing from life’s unpredictable spills and messes. Made from soft, supple, strong 100% micro polyester suede, koobli™ is lightweight and easy to slip on and pull off — use it to cover work outfits, suits, uniforms, gowns, etc. Tough enough for multiple wearings yet disposable when necessary, koobli™’s simple, sensible and functional design makes it a must-have for busy parents and caregivers.”

    Watch the video. I’ll wait. (RSS and email readers may have to click through.)

    Okeydoke. So, for the bargain price of $25 plus s&h, you too can have an adult smock.

    OR…..

    We could bring back the housecoat.

    I suspect if you were born after 1980, you may not even remember the housecoat. When I was searching for housecoats on Old Man Google, I found that most people used the term interchangeably with bathrobe, and the two are not quite the same.

    Now, my Great-Aunt Jean had two types of clothing she called a housecoat. There were the “light housecoats,” which were handsewn cotton overshirts, with mother-of-pearl snap buttons and big poufy pockets with elastic at the top (so you could load them up with stuff but the pocket top would remain closed). You would wear these over your clothes when cleaning or cooking to protect whatever you were wearing underneath, and if the doorbell were to ring? The snap buttons pulled open in a, well, snap, and voila! You were presentable for company.

    This one is remarkably similar to the one that was “mine” when I went to visit and is for sale on ebay:

    light cotton housecoat

    The other housecoat, the “heavy housecoats,” were long and quilted and warm. They zippered all the way from the neck to the hem. Some were a thick sateen-like fabric, and some more a quilted flannel. They came in both short-sleeve and long-sleeve versions.

    Right up into very very old age, my Aunt Jean wore light fancy silky nightgowns to sleep in, and the housecoat to stay warm and presentable until she slipped into bed.

    Again, one on ebay that closely resembled “mine” when I went to visit. But no zipper.

    quilted housecoat

    These were hugely practical pieces of clothing. Why did they go out of style? I wasn’t there, but I have a couple of theories.

    The feminist movement.

    Aprons and housecoats, I suspect, were thrown off like shackles, symbols of the “perfect housewife” role that women no longer wished to be defined by. Aprons have come back as a sort of retro-cutesy ironic statement, but the utilitarian counterpart, the housecoat, still seems working class.

    The rise of disposable fashion.

    Once upon a time people made their clothes. Or they scrimped and saved to buy some nice things, and buying something new was sort of a big deal. (If you live in an older house, you totally know what I mean, because your closets are teeny-tiny.) You took care of your things. You mended them, you carefully washed and air-dryed them, and you protected them from dirt and grime so that you could get a couple of wears in before you washed again, prolonging the life of the fabric. Now? It’s no big thing if you get some sauce on your t-shirt. It’s so last season anyway, and it only cost five bucks at Target.

    Comfy pants.

    To put it simply, we don’t dress up to hang around the house or to sit down to dinner, or don a modest lacy thing nightly to sleep in (immodest, maybe, but not every night, and it’s not really for sleeping in, either). I love comfy pants as much as anyone, and in fact lived in them for pretty much 15 years straight. But now that I’m fully immersed in my Uniform Project, I’m gonna say… there’s something to be said for looking nice and put-together when you open the door for the UPS man, or the Jehovah’s Witnesses, or the elderly man who can’t find the park office, or your children (these all being people who have rung my doorbell this week).

    Cheap indoor heating.

    I grew up in a house where it was always freaking cold (unless it was unbearably hot). If you were cold, you put on a sweater and socks, or curled up under an afghan my mom had crocheted. In my great-aunt’s apartment, you put on your heavy housecoat. Today, people look at me like I’m insane when they hear we keep the thermostat to 63° daytime, 58° after 9pm. Heads up, people: dialing down the thermostat is green and it saves mad cash, and with oil prices the way they are you may want to get used to throwing on something long and warm over your regular clothes. (I am currently rocking a full-length flannel old man robe from L.L. Bean, and it’s awesome. But it’s belted. I’d love one that stayed zippered closed.)

    My modest proposal

    Here’s what I would like to see happen:

    • People buy less clothing, but pay more for items that are made sustainably, at a fair wage.
    • They relearn to appreciate styles that are practical and timeless and unlikely to become dated after a few months.
    • Because their clothing costs more, people take care of them. And learn to mend them.
    • Feminism becomes defined as equality and equal opportunity. Period. That includes the full ability to choose to be a homemaker, a SAHM, with no prejudice from male or female peers, dammitall.
    • People conserve energy. I think we’re probably headed this way anyway, but it bears mentioning. Everything is growing more expensive and we should all be socking away as much as possible. Turning down the thermostat and limiting the use of your dryer are two of the best & easiest ways to really put a dent in your power bill and keep $$ in your bank account. The benefits for the earth are a bonus.

    If you’re handy with a sewing machine, I found a couple of vintage patterns on etsy… I bet you could find a market for these 🙂

    housecoat duster patterns

    $10 at lisaanne1960’s shop

    $5.75 at old2newmemories’ shop

    $3 at retrospex’s shop (in Philly!)

    Or, you know.

    You could totally go with a 100% micro polyester suede koobli™, tough enough for multiple wearings yet disposable when necessary.

    What do you think? Would you rock the housecoat?

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  • Lights Out for Earth Hour

    Lights Out for Earth Hour

    lights out for earth hour 2011

    Every time I have some moment on a seashore,
    or in the mountains,
    or sometimes in a quiet forest,

    I think this is why the environment has to be preserved.

    Bill Bradley

    “Earth Hour started in 2007 in Sydney, Australia when 2.2 million individuals and more than 2,000 businesses turned their lights off for one hour to take a stand against climate change. Only a year later and Earth Hour had become a global sustainability movement with more than 50 million people across 35 countries/territories participating. Global landmarks such as the Sydney Harbour Bridge, CN Tower in Toronto, Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco, and Rome’s Colosseum, all stood in darkness, as symbols of hope for a cause that grows more urgent by the hour…

    On Saturday 27 March, Earth Hour 2010 became the biggest Earth Hour ever. A record 128 countries and territories joined the global display of climate action. Iconic buildings and landmarks from Asia Pacific to Europe and Africa to the Americas switched off. People across the world from all walks of life turned off their lights and came together in celebration and contemplation of the one thing we all have in common – our planet.”

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    I love Earth Hour.

    I love the idea of whole areas of the world coming together in the darkness, in support of the earth we all share.

    But I will be honest: the Earth Hour I observe each year celebrates a very specific environment— one of quiet time with my children.

    We live in a world of noise, noise, noise, NOISE (and I feel for the Grinch every year when he sounds this complaint; I really do. I understand his pain). From planes overhead to cars rushing by to shouting over the background noise of the television to even the hum of the refrigerator: noise is constant in our lives.

    Our family went through quite a few involuntary “Earth Hours” this winter, as Mother Nature forced downtime upon us by knocking out our power time and again. It’s remarkable how quiet the house is without the lowgrade hum of electronics. It seems impossible, when awakened by the power flicking back on in the middle of the night, that we live with this constant background din without noticing it.

    I have to believe that this contributes to our levels of stress. I also think it makes it incredibly difficult for us to really hear each other.

    How many times have you snapped back to a conversation in progress without knowing what has been said? Raise your hand if you are guilty of the non-committal “mm-hmm” when a child has asked you something?

    We are surrounded by distraction. We can only focus on so much. Our anxiety climbs, and as a result, we “tune out.” We disconnect.

    Now think what that’s like for a child, who is so much more sensitive to external stimuli, and to the wandering of a parent’s attention.

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    On Saturday, March 26, at 8:30pm local time, people all over this great world of ours will shut out the lights for Earth Hour.

    In some areas there are community activities planned. A quick Google search will reveal lists of ideas for fun things to do with your children.

    This post is not about that. My plans are somewhat different.

    My kids and I will head outside armed with blankets and hot cocoa and the freedom of nothing planned. Maybe we’ll count the stars. Maybe we’ll hear the spring peepers which have hatched by the creek. (We will, no doubt, be freaked out by the owls who must be mid-mating season, judging by the unholy racket they’ve been making.)

    We will snuggle for warmth. We will speak in muted tones so that the neighbors cannot overhear, and by god I will listen to what they are saying, and for what meaning may be hiding underneath. My guess is that they will say what they really need for me to understand, while they have my absolute and undivided attention. And when you are a tween, or a teen, sigh, such things are always easier to say in the dark, under the guise of boredom.

    Rituals are important. I want my children to associate Earth Hour, and the onset of spring, with this feeling of unity and calm and being heard. I want them to always be able to seek out some pocket of silence outdoors and recreate the comfort of these times. To associate nature with love and protection.

    And yes, I want them to remember the seemingly ridiculous amount of weight and importance I put on these hours of quiet, so that they remember to do the same with their children.

    I want to find excuses to hold these hours more often.

    How do you get your children to open up to you?

    Find out more about Earth Hour here.

  • Wordless(ish) Wednesday: at the end of the day, you should smell like dirt

    Wordless(ish) Wednesday: at the end of the day, you should smell like dirt

    child playing in dirt

    In the spring,

    at the end of the day,

    you should smell like dirt.

    -Margaret Atwood

    Who needs toys? All a kid really wants is a sled to hold her dirt.

    (Jeff said, “Look at her. She’s filthy. She’s like a pig in mud.”

    “Good,” I said. And I meant it.)

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