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  • Plant a Flower Day

    Plant a Flower Day

    first flowers of spring

    The flowers of late winter and early spring
    occupy places in our hearts well out of proportion to their size.

    -Gertrude S. Wister

    Well, lookee what I found under the leaves 🙂

    I also see daffodils and crocuses (croci?) getting ready to unfurl; the first shoots of the tiger lilies have emerged.

    Today, March 12, is Plant a Flower Day! If you want to start native plants from seed this year and live north of the Mason-Dixon, you’ll definitely want to start your plants indoors about now to get blooms by summers’ end.

    It’s a fun project with the kids using cardboard egg cartons, eggshells, recycled yogurt cartons, toilet paper tubes or newspaper starter pots: the National Wildlife Federation has instructions here.

    I have the worst luck with starting plants indoors and transplanting them, myself. I always take it too fast through the hardening-off process, or forget them outside overnight while they’re still tender, and kill them. I prefer to buy my plants & vegetable & herb starters from local farmers at the farmer’s market (the Amish varieties always seem to perform best for me). Win-win.

    As for flowers, the only thing I think I’m going to bother with this year are some Painted Lady sweet peas. Fragrant and delicate and dating back to the 1730s, they’re cool weather plants that I’ll just seed directly into the ground in the next week or two.

    painted lady sweet pea
    photo courtesy of Seed Savers Exchange

     

    My favorite seed catalog company is the Seed Savers Exchange;

    a non-profit, 501(c)(3), member supported organization that saves and shares the heirloom seeds of our garden heritage, forming a living legacy that can be passed down through generations.

    Our mission is to save North America’s diverse, but endangered, garden heritage for future generations by building a network of people committed to collecting, conserving and sharing heirloom seeds and plants, while educating people about the value of genetic and cultural diversity.

    While I love the idea of preserving old-fashioned flowers with a sense of history, heirloom is particularly important to me in terms of what vegetable plants I buy.

    The vegetables offered to us in chain grocery stores are bred for hardiness: the ability to be picked early, shipped without bruising, and sit on a shelf for as long as possible. My grocery has apples from New Zealand. NEW ZEALAND.

    Heirlooms were bred for taste and attributes like texture, juiciness. They might not be pretty and uniform, and they need to be fully ripened and eaten quickly, but they are delicious. If you have children who are picky eaters I would say try growing your own heirloom fruits and veggies. The effort will be so worth it in so many ways.

    Diversity is always the way to go. Just sayin’.

    What are you growing this year?

  • Uniform Project Update: Fashion Friday

    Uniform Project Update: Fashion Friday

    the uniform project little black dress

    I wear my sort of clothes
    to save me the trouble of deciding which clothes to wear.

    -Katherine Hepburn

    So I’m two weeks into my Uniform Project, and here are my observations so far:

    1. Holy CARP this dress is short. My husband makes me wear a “courtesy skirt” underneath it when I leave the house so that I do not sear out anyone’s eyeballs by unintentionally flashing my bum.
    2. This is fun. In an effort to make the photographs not seem all very much the same, I’ve been digging into the depths of my closet for bright accessories. You know how you buy things because they fit this fun, spontaneous image of who you’d like to be? (Just me?) But then you just keep wearing your same ol’ because that’s what you’re comfortable with? Well, all that stuff is being called into play now, and I’m being forced to wear them in public, and somehow I’m walking around with a lighter heart because of it.
    3. I’m shifting my mental rules a bit. I had planned to only accessorize with what was already in my closet, as part of the sustainable fashion initiative. However, I’ve been thoroughly decluttering these last few months and ruthlessly getting rid of stuff that I don’t wear often. As a result, I just don’t have a lot of options. Sooooo to keep it interesting, I’m going to say it’s OK to buy secondhand, and new if I can buy organic/sustainable. ‘Kay?
    4. Dude, I suck at having my picture taken. I have bad teeth, and so I’ve never been one for smiling for photographs. A few months ago I had adult braces put on, and now I have to either smile with my mouth closed, which looks odd, or really widely so my lip doesn’t get snagged on my braces, which makes me look like a jack o’lantern leering.
    5. I also suck at remembering to have Jake take my picture. In the last 14 days I wore the Uniform Project little black dress 10 times… and was photographed five. I’ll try to do better.
    6. I appreciate my sweats more. In the last 14 days I bummed around the house in fuzzy sweats and long sweaters 4 times, and it felt like a gift. It’s a huge change from when I spent most of my days bumming around in sweats (I work from home) and feeling… well, like a bum.

     

    uniform project collage

     

    1. Necklace made from reconstructed t-shirts, from Hoogs on Etsy (won this from the Green Eyed Monster forever ago. You’re signed up for their newsletter, right?)

    2. Rocking the black, white & red for Dr. Seuss’s birthday.

    3. Busting out the hot pink tights. Illustrating that I can still camouflage if strictly necessary. (Note: this pink sweater is one of my favorites. It has mother of pearl buttons, cost me $2 at Salvation Army, and is older than my oldest son.)

    Uniform Project outfit collage- girls lunch out philly

    4. See how I look halfway decent here? Don’t get used to it; I blew my hair dry and put on some mascara for Girls’ Lunch Out, a networking social gathering for Philly-area social media peeps, where I got to talk to grown adults who understand how I spend my days.

    I’ve got on a denim courtesy skirt and kickass argyle tights which I love. Please note my painful attempt to smile.

    uniform project- rainy day outfit

    5. Yucky, rainy day made much better by my awesome color-wheel umbrella (thanks, Nanny!). Wearing my wellies and one of many rainhats— just can’t bear to get rid of any of my hats.

    Want to see the Uniform Project done up way better than I’m doing so far? Check out Summer Rayne Oakes— she’s designed her own LBD that has more material to work with, and therefore a little more flexibility, and I’m totally salivating over it. And of course, she’s beautiful and has impeccable style. You can see what’s she done with it so far and how much she’s raised for charity: water on the Uniform Project blog.

     

    Check it: I’ve linked this post up to Just Precious and her Fashion Friday. Go indulge in some fashion fun 🙂

  • ‘Nature Prescriptions’ & the Health Benefits of Unstructured Outdoor Time

    ‘Nature Prescriptions’ & the Health Benefits of Unstructured Outdoor Time

    healing powers of nature

    I go to nature to be soothed and healed,
    and to have my senses put in tune once more.

    –John Burroughs

    A few months ago the NYT ran an article about how pediatricians are considering writing prescriptions for produce: vouchers for fruits and vegetables that could be redeemed at local farmer’s markets. This had the dual perks of making fresh produce more affordable, while bringing new customers and dollars to small farmers.

    I liked this idea. I haven’t really heard anything about it since.

    Now, a new federal program that hopes to be an “Rx for healthy living” supports doctors who write “nature prescriptions” for kids who are obese or at risk for childhood obesity (and all the health problems that ride on obesity’s coattails: diabetes, heart disease, high blood pressure, and the like).

    I like this idea too. I really hope it doesn’t fizzle out like the produce by prescription.

    The theory is that these “prescriptions” will carry a weight that general advice and, you know, common sense do not.

    The federal funds are supporting programs that train rangers and volunteers who take the patients with prescriptions on guided hikes. Which is all well and good and all, but for programs like this to work, we really have to somehow reintegrate nature into our children’s everyday lives in a more accessible way. Long, aggressive hikes on the weekends is not the ideal solution; and for some kids, may prove more discouraging than anything else.

    My hope is that this program will gain enough steam that those funds will also be used to create more open urban green spaces, to provide access to nature at schools, so that kids can experience outdoor time in a natural environment every day, even if their time spent is of less aerobic intensity.

    Health is a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being,
    and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.

    -World Health Organization, 1948

    climbing apple trees

    How can spending time in nature combat childhood obesity?

    Spending time in nature reduces stress.

    Studies indicate that chronic stress may cause long-term metabolic changes that contribute to stubborn weight gain, particularly in the belly. (Abdominal weight gain in particular carries health challenges that are known to be killers.)

    Spending time in nature generates a sense of well-being.

    We can extrapolate the opposite to be true- that being deprived of nature can contribute to depression, and comfort eating. There have also been indications that lack of access to nature can be correlated to poor impulse control.

    Spending time outdoors helps you sleep.

    Exposure to bright daylight regulates your circadian rhythms. Meanwhile, the artificial light emitted from electronics suppresses the sleep-promoting hormone melatonin. The more time spent outside means the more time away from those rhythm-disrupting lights (exercise helps too, of course), promoting better sleep habits and quality sleep cycles. And, you guessed it: lack of sleep has been linked to childhood obesity.

    Spending time outdoors may reduce allergies.

    This one is a bit more tenuous, I’ll admit, but I want to include it. The “hygiene hypothesis” suggests that allowing our kids to get dirty— by which I mean outside and in actual dirt— helps their immune systems to develop whatever they need to fight off allergies. Children who are obese are more likely to have allergies, particularly to food. It’s a chicken or the egg sort of link and not necessarily causal (will preventing obesity prevent allergies? Or vice versa? Or do they come together as a matched set?) but since I’m emptying out my file of studies here I thought I’d include it.

    hanging from tree limbs

    Why aren’t school & neighborhood playgrounds as good as open green spaces?

    Playgrounds can be stressful.

    Ask any teacher. Slides, swings, and monkey bars don’t lend themselves naturally to cooperative play. With slides, it’s who can get there first; swings, who can swing the highest (and who is brave enough to jump off, causing any adults in the area to go into cardiac arrest, in spite of the fact that we did it as kids and survived); with monkey bars, it’s who can navigate them the fastest. And then of course there’s the fact that only so many kids can use the playground equipment at one time.

    With natural spaces— ideally incorporating trees for climbing, rocks for scaling and hopping, and an incline of some sort for sliding and running down— there’s no clearly delineated race or competition. Kids can detach from the group without it being painfully obvious. Activity levels are determined by whatever play dictates; it’s not the same sort of hamster-on-a-wheel, ‘up-the-ladder-down-the-slide as many times as possible before the bell rings’ frenzy.

    Playgrounds can be dangerous.

    And not for the reasons that overbearing parents have conjured up in their overactive imaginations. Playgrounds assume a certain level of physical prowess that not every kid possesses. And then it takes these kids of differing levels of ability and confidence, and throws them all on the same equipment for an ever-shortening period of time. As I said before, recess can take on a frenetic quality as kids attempt to squeeze as much as they can into the time allotted to them. For a child who is nervous about climbing the rope ladder to the slide, this can be overwhelming at the least, as the more capable kids race and swarm around them, or dangerous at worst, as they lose their balance. Likewise, a kid who can’t make it across the monkey bars not only faces public humiliation when they stall, but has to deal with how to get down. Their only option is falling, FYI. There’s no safety net.

    It’s just easier to not bother in the first place.

    Green spaces build confidence.

    By contrast, a kid climbing a tree has no public “failure” if they decide they are not confident enough to reach the top; it’s not the same as freezing on a slide ladder and retreating. They can scale at their own pace and stop where they are comfortable doing so. If they get stuck (and I still, as an adult, often get stuck when climbing trees. Going up is easier than coming down), they are not faced with the sole option of a dead drop. They can search out footholds; they can ask for guidance. There is a very serious sense of accomplishment to navigating your way down a tree. It’s different every time.

    There’s no end of physical challenges a kid can set up for himself in an open space. Jumping rock to rock. Walking only in the shadows. The rules are in their own mind, and they can make it more challenging as they like. With adult designed playgrounds, there are limitations. You go up the ladder. You go down the slide. It has a clear-cut purpose that is difficult to deviate from (assuming the adult supervisors allow it).

    Green spaces foster community.

    In a school environment, this community comes about by offering open-ended play, where the children work out activities as a group. In a neighborhood, it encourages members of the immediate area to spend more time outdoors, so that those who live around you are familiar faces. When you know the people in your shared space, you perceive it to be safer; and when parents believe it’s safe outside, kids spend less time in front of a screen. (Interestingly, this specific study links open spaces with water features to a decrease in screen time. Mere walkways, i.e. adult directed use of green space, doesn’t cut it.)

    Green spaces are easier for parents to share with their children.

    Let’s be honest: we know our kids want to spend shared time with us, and spending that time at a park is just a whole lot easier than spending time with them at a playground. In the same way that reading aloud to our kids generates a feeling of security and well-being that they can revisit for the rest of their lives as they read to themselves, and to their own children, spending quiet shared time in nature is an experience that kids can and will want to replicate. I can’t honestly say I love hiking, but I go hiking from time to time. Because that was something my father and I used to do, and I know it was something he found important, and it helps me to feel close to him now that he is gone.

    Don’t underestimate the power of your company, and your priorities.

    apple picking

    How is a kid going to lose weight just messing around outside? Wouldn’t a vigorous weekly hike be better?

    Nope. Getting a kid in the habit of being outdoors on a daily basis is building a healthy lifestyle. Plus, it’s been shown that three short bouts of exercise, 10 minutes at a time, can be just as effective as one half-hour effort. Getting up to move many times a day is also better for circulation and overall health; those who sit for four hours or more at a time (watching TV, playing video games, staring at a computer screen, or, one might worry, sitting at a school desk) are 125% more likely to suffer a cardiovascular event than those sitting for two-hour intervals.

    sitting at top of slide

    Why am I telling you all of this?

    It’s fundraiser time at my daughter’s school. It feels like it’s always fundraiser time at my daughter’s school. They’ll find ways to raise funds all year long, and then redo the blacktop around the playground. Or add a rock climbing wall. Wouldn’t it be less expensive to put a few big boulders and a pond back there? How about a vegetable garden? The kids could take care of the upkeep themselves, or parent volunteers. Hell, I’d be more than happy to donate $20 this month to sponsor an hour of garden work and a few packets of seeds. Way better than buying a magazine subscription I don’t want or need. Kids and parents could work together to benefit the school firsthand. While spending time together outdoors. I don’t know, it seems full of win to me. But I need more parents to agree with me before anything can change.

    We currently live in a society that requires doctors to write a prescription for active outdoor time. It’s ridiculous. I suspect that anyone knows that outdoor time is good for your health and mind and soul. We know it in our bones. Why don’t we take the time to listen to our own bodies and instincts?

    Ahhh, time. There’s the rub. And there, I have no practical advice or case studies to cite. I don’t know how to magic more hours out of the day or week. But we as good, conscientious parents need to figure out a way to make time. For the sake of our kids.

    You are worried about seeing him spend his early years in doing nothing.
    What! Is it nothing to be happy?
    Nothing to skip, play, and run around all day long?
    Never in his life will he be so busy again.

    -Jean-Jacques Rousseau