Category: Fitness, Health, Happiness

  • Creating White Space in Your Life

    Creating White Space in Your Life

     

    Whenever I feel blue, I start breathing again.

    -L. Frank Baum

    We live in a noisy world. There’s physical noise— the hum of electronics, traffic outside, the television in the background. And there’s the noise of technology— so much information being taken in, a sense of being connected and “on” every waking moment, especially for people like me who work online and through the wonder of email and smartphones never really step away from the office.

    I have tinnitus. Loud, abrasive noise causes me physical pain, and I lack the ability to effectively filter out background noise. If we are at a bar, all I can do is watch and smile and nod and try to make sense of what you are saying. I catch a bit here and there and it’s a lot of work to follow what’s being said. Eventually, I become overwhelmed and tune out.

    I think that’s analogous to how many of us process informational noise. We try to keep up, but eventually our patience wanes and our attention fragments and we lack the ability to fully concentrate. Add the situational burdens of everything we need to do in the holiday season and we become like the walking dead, moving from thing to thing without being fully aware or emotionally engaged.

    That’s a terrible way to spend a beautiful time intended for friends and family. But it sucks at other times of the year too.

    Creating white space means to give yourself some room to breathe. To clear out the clutter so you can release the tension you’re unconsciously holding, step back and achieve some perspective. To be able to clearly hear your own guiding voice. It’s restive. It’s rejuvenating. And at this time of year, it’s necessary to keep your dang sanity.

    *Aside: quite by coincidence, I opened an email from Danielle LaPorte about the white space in her blog design today. Doesn’t it do your soul good to see it? Doesn’t it make you realize how cluttered the rest of the online world is by comparison?*

    Where am I going with this? I have a suggestion for a new tool to help you create white space in your life.

    GaiamTV is an online treasure trove of videos dedicated to helping you make sense of and honor your life’s journey. Tonight, and ideally every night, when you would normally watch some TV (but not during New Girl; I wholly approve of New Girl), take 30 minutes and check out some of what GaiamTV has to offer.

    There are yoga videos and meditation videos, which you’d probably expect, both of which are wonderful for centering and creating white space in your day. (I recommend Rodney Yee for those new to yoga; I’m personally excited about the Yoga for Athletic Integration/ Recovery: basically warmups & cooldowns I can do before & after winter runs.) There are also a host of other fitness videos— dance, cardio, core and more— including the series that kickstarted my own weight loss, Jillian Michaels’ 30 Day Shred.

    But that’s just the beginning.

     

     

    I originally went through and made a playlist of everything I want to watch on GaiamTV with the intention of cutting and pasting here, but there’s far too many to list. So here are a couple of highlights:

    • Movies about our food system & effects on health: Fresh, King Corn, Killer at Large, Fat Sick and Nearly Dead
    • Documentaries about nature, particularly deep sea: Aliens of the Deep, The Coral Reefs Are Dying, Ocean Crystals
    • Shows about the mysteries of the mind and body: Chasing Sleep
    • Studies on the pursuit of happiness: Happy, Happy For No Reason
    • Biographical content: Coco Chanel, The Looking Glass of Lewis Carroll
    • Examinations of religion and spiritual beliefs: The Hidden Story of Jesus, Feng Shui Life
    • Some random things like Jack Canfield and Laurel & Hardy (YAY!)

    They also have kids’ videos, a nice safe alternative to what’s available on Netflix.

    In much the same way that I don’t believe that “any reading is good reading,” I don’t think any TV is relaxing TV. GaiamTV is a more challenging way to spend 30 or 60 minutes than sitting down with Honey Boo Boo, on the surface. But I believe that the content stretches you and therefore makes you more limber. It takes you out of your noise— elevates you— and creates that white space that we need and crave, but don’t realize we’ve missed so much until it’s there.

    They say you never regret a good workout. Think of GaiamTV as a workout for your mind and spirit.

    You can try GaiamTV for 10 days yourself for free; it’s $9.95 a month after that. Tonight on Twitter I’ll be running a chat with @GaiamTV (I’ll be behind the @FitFluential handle) about how we can stay active and well during the holidays, and three people will win 3 months of GaiamTV. (Two others will win a Gaiam Eco-Body Balance Ball kit!) If you’re intrigued by the video offerings, looking for ways to stay active through the busy months, or intrigued by the concept of white space please do join us 🙂

     

    Disclosure: I work for FitFluential and GaiamTV is a client. All opinions and meanderings are my own.

     

     

  • Giveaway: #GetAfterIt Reebok Tees (5 winners)

    Giveaway: #GetAfterIt Reebok Tees (5 winners)

     

    If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else,
    it will spread into your work and into your life.

    There are no limits.

    There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there,

    you must go beyond them.

    –Bruce Lee

     

    I’m looking back at this year and I’ve done a lot. It doesn’t feel like it, but I have.

    I got on a plane. All by myself.

     

     

    That may not sound like much, but to a girl who has been vaguely agoraphobic all her life it’s the equivalent of backpacking solo around the world.

    I ran a fun mud run. And then a timed 5k the day after.

    I ran the Color Run with my family. And I talked dozens of friends into joining us (and thousands of other colorful runners).

     

     

    I ran another mud run that was pretty grueling. I was filled with accomplishment that I had done something that was so hard for me…. and enjoyed every moment of it. I’ve run a bunch more 5ks since then, and plan to run 13 races (stepping out of my 5k comfort zone) next year.

    I was recognized by BlogHer as a Voice of the Year, for the most difficult post I’ve ever written. A post that was zero craft, zero technique, but just me trying to understand.

    I modeled, for the camera and the runway. I’ve actually done this before, as a kid, and it did such a number on my body image that I’ve avoided mirrors, cameras and trying to look “pretty” ever since. (I have no problem looking like an idiot on camera. You see those shots here all the time.) I admittedly felt dumb and self-conscious and out of place, but I managed to keep the self-loathing to a minimum.

     

     

    I entered and won a photography contest, and my photo was placed in the Picaboo calendar given to each attendee of the Type A Conference.

    I split the driving to Type A, by the way. All the way to Charlotte and back. Have I mentioned I hate driving, especially when I don’t know where I am? I didn’t crash or anything. And then I went and mingled with people I didn’t know. I even captained a team for a danceoff. That’s crazy! Robin pre-2012 would never have done such a thing.

     

    photo credit to Sarah

     

    Hey! I lost a lot of weight. I gained some muscle. And I wrote about it in a place where people would actually see it.

    I coached basketball.

    I did some videos. I talked about some hard stuff to talk about in a couple of them.

    I helped grow FitFluential into the company it is today: with over 800 Ambassadors, 7000 members, 26K Twitter followers, 12K Facebook fans and catapulting into 2013 at breakneck speed. Being part of a startup with only 5 employees is tense work with long hours, and it has been worth it for this moment, looking back and seeing how far we’ve come. (Kelly Olexa is a powerhouse.)

    And now I’m learning to swim. The decision to sign up and show up was terrifying; right now it’s very frustrating. But I have no doubt that sometime soon, I will be able to move through the water without touching the bottom. Without drowning.

    It has been a year of stepping out of my comfort zone, and as a result I’m stronger in every way: mentally, emotionally, physically. And the best part about that is knowing I’m being a role model to my girl… she knows no limits to her abilities now, and I hope that her age, her gender, her insecurities never get in her way.

     

     

    2013 better hold on to its hat.

     

     

    GIVEAWAY!

    I want to know how you’ve stepped out of your comfort zone and grown this year! And how you plan to take 2013 by storm.

    Reebok sent me a few #getafterit shirts to give away. These tees are emblazoned with the #getafterit logo in Vitamin C orange to give your workouts a shot of energy 🙂 I get a lot of “I like your shirt!” when I wear mine to the gym. My hope is that maybe some of those people check out the #getafterit hashtag on Twitter and tweet out their own accomplishments after a cathartic sweatfest.

     

     

    I have 2 of these in size medium, and three in large, so there will be FIVE winners in all.

    Just follow the directions in the Rafflecopter widget. Here’s to a fierce December… and a 2013 to remember.

     

    a Rafflecopter giveaway

     

  • Fitness Friday: Turkey Trot, Ice Skating and 13 in 2013

    Fitness Friday: Turkey Trot, Ice Skating and 13 in 2013

    You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.

    ―C.S. Lewis

     

    I don’t know. I feel sort of old to be starting all this; the running, the learning to swim, the itch at the back of mind that says maybe it’s not too late to take up skiing, rock climbing, tap dancing.

    I find myself driving by CrossFit boxes… that aren’t even on my way home. (Brownie points to whoever identifies the movie reference.)

    And although I deeply suspect I probably am too old… I’m going ahead anyway until somebody stops me.

     

    Reebok and Mizuno Wave Creations

     

    On Thanksgiving Jake and I ran a 5k for MS in downtown Wilmington; I’m going to call it a Turkey Trot although I don’t think it carried that specific moniker. It was sort of surreal to see all those people on a day where downtown would normally be a ghost town, even more so when Santa drove up on his Harley with the missus on the backseat.

     

    waiting to start. This pink top is also Reebok

    It was hella cold. I was never so happy to be able to run and get warm.

    It was fun to run through the streets I hadn’t seen in years, but this was no PR race for me. Jake had had a pretty bad head cold the week before; nosebleeds and swollen lymph nodes ever since. Although he hasn’t had an asthmatic episode in forever, hearing his breathing start to catch and wheeze scared the hell out of me, so I kept the pace slow and whenever he asked, we walked. Our gun time was something like 36:10.

    *shrug* He only came along because he didn’t want me to have to go alone, I know that. I wasn’t about to leave him behind to walk alone.

    So we had a lovely leisurely jog/run through the streets of my childhood and along the Brandywine. It was a lovely start to a family holiday.

     

     

    At the last 100 yards or so he hollered “YOLO!” and took off for the finish; like Cass, his top sprint beats the crap out of my top speed. He crossed several seconds ahead of me… brat.

    Then we all showered and went out with friends for Thanksgiving dinner, where I pretty much ate my own weight in turkey and sweet potato.

     

    I like this shot, it looks like we’re dancin’

    we clean up ok.

     

    Skating Shoes

    In other fitness news, Jacob recently got it into his head he wanted to learn to ice skate, so last weekend we took advantage of the university kids being away for the holiday and hit a pretty empty rink.

    The kids were all pretty confident they’d pick up ice skating like it was no big thing. The moment when they stepped on the ice? Priceless.

    I actually took ice skating lessons for years as a kid, but I’d gone my senior year in high school and found that ice skating strengthens specific muscles you don’t use on a daily basis. I walked in prepared to be humbled.  It came back to me pretty quickly, but my bum killed the next day.

    Jake could skate passibly at the end of two hours. Mav could stay on his feet. Cass fell a lot, but that didn’t stop her from keepin’ on keepin’ on or from putting skates on her wish list when we got home. Love that all three of them can’t wait to go back and get better— rather than give up.

     

     

    13 in 2013

    So I’m planning to run 13 races in 2013; I’m hoping at least one will be a half marathon. Hopefully it will keep me going steadily, so I don’t fall off the wagon in the cold months and the hot months. So far, I’ve got the Commitment Day 5k on New Year’s Day (in Philly, but these are happening in more than 30 cities across the country) and the Run to the Plunge in Lewes in February, which raises money for the Special Olympics (my friend Kelly talked me into this one and I’m sure I’ll be cursing her out the whole time).

    I had hoped to run the Princess Half at Disney in February, but that sold out before Jeff gave me the OK to go away that weekend. Bummer. Maybe in 2014.

     

     

    And…. I think I’ve bored you enough for now 🙂

    I’m getting after it. I’m staying active in as many ways as I can, in the time I have.

    How about you?